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We would all love to keep our marriages healthy

However, many people feel disconnected from their partners and simply live like roommates.

  • Couples have become emotionally unsafe with one another.

  • In event of conflict, couples do not know how to ensure safety - they simple cannot handle difficult conversations.

  • They do not understand the need to conduct a love check and never to assume their partners are wrong as pre-converstaion checklist

Pastor Tom Whitesel

With four decades of dedicated service as a Pastor and Marriage Coach, Tom extends his expertise and compassion to couples nationwide, through the convenience of virtual sessions (by Zoom). Married for 43 years, Pastor Tom embodies a deep-rooted commitment to the joy of marriage and the fulfillment of enduring love. With a reputation for being easy-going, encouraging, and a compassionate listener, he has a high success rate of fostering healing and growth with the couples that he counsels. Pastor Tom finds solace in a loving relationship with his wife Denise, his two children, three grandchildren, and his loyal chihuahua companion, Joey. As a trained musician, he is both a singer and acoustic guitar player. He loves sports, especially baseball.
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Check Out My Courses

Couples face pre marital and marriage challenges and it does not help because most courses and counselors are quite expensive. I am an ordained Pastor (39 years) and I specialize in Pre Marital and Marriage Counseling. You will find that my rates are lower than other Therapists or Counselors. I do this so that as many as possible can receive assistance. I want to be affordable to all who are SERIOUS about receiving help. I am a Certified Gottman Method Couples Therapist, a Counselor with Connected Marriage Counseling and a Certified Counselor with Prepare/Enrich Marriage Counseling. I also am trained in helping those suffering from the trauma of an affair (Post Betrayal Syndrome). I have published a couple of courses that you will find valuable.
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What You'll Gain from Pastor Tom

  • Specialized Training

    As a Certified Gottman Method Couples Therapist and a Counselor with Connected Marriage Counseling, Pastor Tom has specialized training in helping couples navigate the complexities of marriage. His expertise in areas such as premarital counseling, affair recovery (Post Betrayal Syndrome), and the 5 Love Languages equips him to address a wide range of issues couples may face.

  • Affordability

    Pastor Tom's commitment to helping couples is evident in his lower rates compared to other therapists or counselors. By making his services more affordable, he ensures that more people can access the assistance they need to strengthen their marriages.

  • Virtual Sessions

    Pastor Tom offers the convenience of virtual sessions through Zoom, allowing couples nationwide to access his services from the comfort of their own homes. This flexibility makes it easier for couples to prioritize their relationship without the need for travel.

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